What do we really want?
I wonder sometimes of me, cause i tend to fall into circles of thoughts and dilemma of the unknown. We are always overthinking, negatively cursed into imagining the worst case scenario instead of enjoying our best moments..
We overtly imposed over judgment of what is best, because we are always busy comparing ourselves with others, and if we fail to match we put our labels as dommed. Thats how it is for us, therefore, we are always moody, maybe sad and in alot of cases unhappy
Realistically, we ether live in the past because we treasure it or in the future because we are " waiting". We impose critics, sometimes discourage ourselves and fall into pitty compromises of our beings
We are not whole, nor impeccbally perfect, we are human, and we carry brain for us to think and to live accordingly. We are human beings, with souls, and emotions to care for. We are not robots, nor machines, fully equipped to lavish extendigly.
But i figured out one thing, we have never asked ourselves with true intentions" what do we really wants", we only cope or maybe copy paste what others are doing, and we long for the same, cause thats what the norm dictate us to do or want...
But, have we ever dreamed of being one, so differnt, and unique from others.. Have we really wanted something because we really wanted it, or maybe thats the right thing for us to want? Have we ever asked ourselves whats really missing, or whats really hurting, instead of sugar coating our wounds and hurts and delaying the healing process? Have we really healed ourselves from the past, or rather held the full responsibility of our wound? have we really defended ourselves when hurt, or when had bad relationships, or when people belittled us, or circumstances turned us bitter? Have we really treated our bitterness and cured all the curses dragged into our hearts... and instead of walking on our wounds, spent some quality time on healing and figuring out the truth...
I think we should start thinking wisely and solely of our being more than enjoying.. we need to think, we need to be compassionate with ourselves before extending our hands to others.. we need to reach for our hearts and heal the wounds... we need time.. we need love .. we need real feelings of sharing... we need us before fetching for others ...
We overtly imposed over judgment of what is best, because we are always busy comparing ourselves with others, and if we fail to match we put our labels as dommed. Thats how it is for us, therefore, we are always moody, maybe sad and in alot of cases unhappy
Realistically, we ether live in the past because we treasure it or in the future because we are " waiting". We impose critics, sometimes discourage ourselves and fall into pitty compromises of our beings
We are not whole, nor impeccbally perfect, we are human, and we carry brain for us to think and to live accordingly. We are human beings, with souls, and emotions to care for. We are not robots, nor machines, fully equipped to lavish extendigly.
But i figured out one thing, we have never asked ourselves with true intentions" what do we really wants", we only cope or maybe copy paste what others are doing, and we long for the same, cause thats what the norm dictate us to do or want...
But, have we ever dreamed of being one, so differnt, and unique from others.. Have we really wanted something because we really wanted it, or maybe thats the right thing for us to want? Have we ever asked ourselves whats really missing, or whats really hurting, instead of sugar coating our wounds and hurts and delaying the healing process? Have we really healed ourselves from the past, or rather held the full responsibility of our wound? have we really defended ourselves when hurt, or when had bad relationships, or when people belittled us, or circumstances turned us bitter? Have we really treated our bitterness and cured all the curses dragged into our hearts... and instead of walking on our wounds, spent some quality time on healing and figuring out the truth...
I think we should start thinking wisely and solely of our being more than enjoying.. we need to think, we need to be compassionate with ourselves before extending our hands to others.. we need to reach for our hearts and heal the wounds... we need time.. we need love .. we need real feelings of sharing... we need us before fetching for others ...
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